Sunday, January 18, 2009

I finished the hat...

But it is now Rory's and not for Carl, lol. I was able to use a crochet hook to weave in the ends and didn't have to have a needle.

Here it is with the finished tassel. (The photos of Rory in it were before I got the tassel done, he had to go to bed before I finished.)





Not bad for my first knitting project! I am making Arden one now with a ribbed rim on it instead of the rim I did for Rory's. It is more difficult, so we will see how it goes. :)

Saturday, January 17, 2009

Tired of getting pushed down.

Among other things, I'm tired. Tired of being pushed down. Tired of nothing going right. Tired of the crap. Tired of being broke. Just plain tired. I just want to sit and cry.

Van died today. I could have told you last night it was going to. (Actually I did mention it to Carl.) While we were driving, the lights were flickering, the engine was surging, and it wasn't acting right.

I needed to go to Walmart for diapers, deodorant, and a few grocery items b/c we are running low, we didn't go last night b/c it was just too cold and the kids needed to go to bed. So this morning, I went out to the car, had the baby all bundled up, was leaving the other 2 boys with Carl (b/c I needed an hour "break") and started the car... well... tried to start the car... Nice, it was dead... again.

Carl leaves today to go to the Bahamas. I'm out of diapers (literally on the last disposable, and cloth isn't fitting right now, leaks everywhere), Carl is taking the only tube of deodorant, and the list goes on. The only "frivolous" thing I needed was a needle to finish the hat I am knitting.

Now the kicker is that I was heading to Walmart, not the local store b/c I'm broke, and I have a Walmart giftcard.

I just so tired of us never pulling ahead. I applied for 7 jobs this week. Didn't get them. I can't even get hired at the YMCA for $6 an hour. It is freaking depressing. Day care for 3 kids is not do-able financially, even if I was working...

I desperately want a YMCA membership so that we can get out of the house and do something healthy while Carl is working, and something that will allow me to exercise and get a few minutes away from my children (whom I dearly love, I'm just loved out at the moment).

I feel guilty for wasting money to go out to dinner with some friends last night, that would probably be a new battery (although I am clueless on how much one costs?).

Ugh, I am just so done feeling this way and dealing with the constant worry and crap. So done.

Sorry for the vent, I know that most of you read this to catch up on the kids and what we are up to, and to see cute photos. I just needed to "vocalize" for a few minutes.

Friday, January 16, 2009

Oh the Drama!!!


I wouldn't let him have a bowl of oatmeal or cereal 10 minutes before lunch time! Poor Arden, he has the world's meanest mom! ;)

It is Cold Outside...

Like ridiculously cold outside.

So cold in fact, that our well is frozen.

No, not the pipes under the house, or even the line to the house (or at least we don't think that one is frozen too) but the actual well line its self. Carl has been outside with a heat gun trying to thaw for the better part of an hour. It isn't working so far.

I'm hoping that the well is OK and that this didn't burn up the pump. Seriously, this is like the last thing we need right now.

ETA: Looks like everything is ok now (noonish) must have been ice!

Thursday, January 15, 2009

First Knitting Project...



So this is my first knitting project. I am about half way done the hat :) Rory picked it out, (the yarn that is) but Carl has fallen for the colors and the way it has come out, so it looks like Carl is getting my first project!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Still Sick...

Yup, A-man is sick. Still pukey and poopie.

I hope the rest of us stay healthy...

And I decided that I really like FaceBook.

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

NC House Committee Recommends Licensing Midwives

WHOO HOO

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CONTACT: Russ Fawcett, (910) 471-5187, spigget@aol.com
IMMEDIATE RELEASE: Monday, January 12, 2009


NC HOUSE COMMITTEE RECOMMENDS LICENSING MIDWIVES
Legislation Would Let NC Join 24 Other States in Advancing Healthcare Options

RALEIGH, NC — The NC House Select Committee on Licensing Midwives released a report last week calling on the state to license and regulate Certified Professional Midwives (CPMs), who are trained as specialists in out-of-hospital maternity care. The Committee recommended that North Carolina join the growing number of states that have enacted laws to provide families who choose out-of-hospital delivery with access to highly-trained and legally-recognized maternity care providers.

“Each year, more North Carolina families choose out-of-hospital birth for religious, cultural, philosophical or financial reasons,” said Russ Fawcett, Legislative Chair for North Carolina Friends of Midwives. “CPMs also care for a disproportionate number of rural, low-income and uninsured families. All families deserve safe and affordable maternity care, and the midwives who provide it deserve legal recognition. We applaud the Committee for recommending a much-needed and long-overdue reform in current law and policy.”

Certified Nurse Midwives (CNMs), who practice primarily in hospital settings, are licensed in all 50 states. Currently, there are no laws in North Carolina to regulate CPMs, who deliver babies in private homes and freestanding birth centers. Studies show that low-risk women who plan home births under the care of CPMs have outcomes equal to low-risk women who deliver in the hospital, but with far fewer costly and preventable interventions. A study commissioned by the Washington legislature found that during the last five years alone, the state’s licensed midwives saved taxpayers and private insurers more than $10 million.

Rep. Ty Harrell serves on the Committee that is chaired by Rep. Bob England. “We’ve heard testimony from dozens of public health and policy experts. The facts are clear – it is time to license North Carolina’s midwives.”

Asheville Area Birth Network Founder and Director, Sonya Stone, was one birth professional and consumer advocate that spoke before the Committee.

“From both a cost and a safety standpoint, licensing midwives is an important public health issue,” said Henry Dorn, MD, a board certified OBGYN who practices in High Point. “The Certified Professional Midwife credential is the gold standard for midwives who specialize in out-of-hospital birth, and it is critical that we do all we can to ensure that women in our state have access to the safest care possible, including collaborative care with other providers when it becomes necessary.”

A positive recommendation from the House study committee paves the way for the full General Assembly to develop and enact legislation in the 2009 session that provides for the licensure and regulation CPMs.

North Carolina Friends of Midwives is a grassroots organization of midwifery advocates dedicated to promoting, supporting, and protecting midwifery in North Carolina. We advocate for the preservation of midwife-attended births, in accordance with the Midwives Model of Care™ including those at home and in freestanding birth centers.

North Carolina is a priority of The Big Push for Midwives Campaign a nationally coordinated campaign to advocate for regulation and licensure of Certified Professional Midwives (CPMs) in all 50 states, the District of Columbia and Puerto Rico, and to push back against the attempts of the American Medical Association Scope of Practice Partnership to deny American families access to legal midwifery care. Through its work with state-level advocates, the Big Push is helping to build a new model of U.S. maternity care built on expanding access to out-of-hospital maternity care and CPMs, who provide affordable, quality, community-based care that is proven to reduce costly and preventable interventions as well as the rate of low-birth weight and premature births.

The Big Push Campaign Manager Katie Prown says, “The demand for safe and less-costly maternity care has been steadily increasing in recent years, as more people realize that we can no longer afford a system that produces inferior results at premium costs.”


Media inquiries about North Carolina Friends of Midwives should be directed to Russ Fawcett at (910) 471-5187, spigget@aol.com . Media inquiries about The Big Push for Midwives Campaign should be directed to Steff Hedenkamp at (816) 506-4630, Steff@TheBigPushForMidwives.org.

Monday, January 12, 2009

Harry Potter, in my home?!

Yup. He is here!! Today he watched himself on TV for hours...


Be careful, he might actually know a spell or two!

Obviously he is without his cloak. I will have to try to sneak a photo of that tomorrow.

Rory has become infatuated with 4 things this year... ok maybe more than four, but the top four are:

Pirates
Dinosaurs
Mechanics/Cars
Harry Potter

He loves Harry Potter, and as soon as he opened his birthday gift from Grammy and DadDad Gittings, we had to go straight to the movie store (in our Harry Potter Costume) to rent 2 of the movies in the series. The glasses and wand arrived today, and he just took them off to go to bed! It was the perfect gift! Thank you Grammy and DadDad! We will take more photos tomorrow!

For those concerned about Arden, the sickies seemed to have passed, all I am left with is a tired and somewhat cranky little boy who is in need of lots of hugs.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Poor Little A-man

He has been sick today, but it is seaming to pass. I gave him some chicken soup for dinner, and it stayed down, and the fever seems to have passed.

We HAVE to rent a carpet cleaner now though. Ugh.

Saturday, January 10, 2009

Nothing.

That is what we did today... yet I am so tired that I am ready to go to bed and it is only 5pm. Geeeeeeze.

Friday, January 9, 2009

Back To Nature...

We went to the nature center again today, the boys really like it and there is a lot going on. New habitats are being built and one of the animals has escaped recently! (Not anything dangerous, just one of the birds of prey)

So Rory, Arden and I have a game going... we are going to go to the nature center and get the names and photographs of each animal when we see them. Unfortunately mom keeps forgetting paper when we go, so half the names we learn, I forget. And some of the animals have been elusive b/c of the cold.

Here is what we have so far, some we don't have the names of:

3 Gray Wolves, but only 2 names
(Unknown)


Cody

Shaliman

1 Otter


Olive

1 Coyote


Chelsea

2 Red Foxes


Elvira and Toby

2 Gray Foxes


(unknown)

1 Cougar


Val

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Using the potty...

Arden is doing great with potty training! Yesterday (or was it the day before?) Arden made it to and from Walmart in undies, and even had a nap! Today we actually went to Target and back without any accidents!

WHOO HOO! One less butt to wipe coming up! Man I can't wait for all three kids to be able to handle their own bodily functions...

Tuesday, January 6, 2009

Holiday Foamies

We made some wicked cool foamies this year for some friends... and even had our first international order! (By we, of course I mean Carl made them and I am taking the credit...)

Here is a foamie mobile! It hangs from the ceiling, and you can remove the foamies to take kayaking!



We also made a few girly ones for the Stone Girls, I will post those later!

ETA: the Stone Girl's Lil' Huckers foamie kayaks:


Monday, January 5, 2009

Bye Bye Christmas Tree, Hello Pirates!

So today I finished putting away the Christmas decorations (with the exception of the nativity that can stay up a bit longer...)



It is kind of sad to put it all away and to see our tree go out to the fire pit...


On a completely unrelated note, was anyone else invaded by pirates today? We were... does anyone know where they come from or what to do with them? Can I feed them warm beer and bread?



And on a very pirate related note, is this not the BEST breastfeeding shirt ever?!


Sunday, January 4, 2009

We got a late start today...

We didn't quite make it to church this morning. But we did get to have an awesome day together as a family!

When we realized that we were running too late to make church, we decided to see what the weather was going to do.

It turned out to be a magnificent day! Sunny, about 70 degrees, perfect for a picnic and fishing!

We didn't catch anything... but we realize every time that we go, that taking 3 kids to go fishing only lasts a few minutes, lol. I think Carl and I might have gotten to cast about 5 times each before the boys were done! Needless to say, we didn't catch much, but we did get to spend a beautiful day together.

I might take the boys to the nature center tomorrow...

Saturday, January 3, 2009

Happy Birthday!

Happy 4th B-Day Girl!

We all went to the Brew-N-View to have pizza and birthday fun with the Stones, it was a blast seeing all the other Asheville mamas and papas and kiddos! I hope to do it again soon.

Did I mention how beautiful Sonya looks pregnant?

Friday, January 2, 2009

The Nature Center

We took our first trip of the year to the Nature Center today, it was a great time. Even Carl got the time to go with us!


However, before going we did learn that Oscar the Otter (who we saw just last week) passed away. Rory took it pretty hard and felt very bad for Olive. It was a hard conversation to have.

Here are some of the animals we met today on our adventure:

A Gray Wolf:


A Bob Cat:


Olive the Otter:


A Squirrel:


A Goat:



A Donkey:


And here is the one Rory liked the most...


Do you want to know why? Her name is...



Val :O)

Grammy, he thinks that is the coolest!

Val is an 18 year old (very old) cougar who was rescued after being an illegal pet. Isn't she pretty?

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Ringing in the New Year

We had a wonderful night ringing in the new year with friends and family... and celebrating Rory's birthday.

When midnight rolled around, it was only Rory, Carl, and I with sparkling grape juice in the bed watching, Arden and Canyon had fallen asleep hours before, and our friends had wandered off long before then. BUT the day was filled with love and it was wonderful to have everyone drop in to celebrate...

We got to see Sara, Asher, Isiah, Makena, Shaun, Deb, Vince, Barbra, Sonya, Sacred, Savanna, Rhett, Payton, Mary, Patrick, and his girlfriend; they all came by at one time or another to wish a Happy Birthday to Rory and a Happy New Year to the rest of us. It was great!

Kind of neat, Rory's birthday is 12-31, Payton's is 1-1, and Rhett's is 1-2. And we can't forget Dad Dad's on 1-1 too! What a week!

So the New Year means new wishes, new hopes, new promises... What are your resolutions? I have been thinking of mine.

I have the normal weight loss, go to church more, exercise more types of resolutions that never work out, but I have a few others that I really want to have work out.

#1.) To make more time for me and not forgo what I need just because someone else needs something.
#2.) To let more things go and not hold onto the resentment and bad karma associated with it.
#3.) To have more patience with the boys.
#4.) To make more time for Rory's schooling.
#5.) To make time for me and my husband without children.

My life revolves around these 3 little people, and over the last few months I have found that I am not getting the time and space that I need in order to continue to give them what they need. Every waking (and sleeping) minute that I have is consumed by the children in one form or another. I have begun to realize that I don't have the patience and energy that I need for the boys.

I love attachment parenting, and I feel that I have 3 well behaved and nice boys, but I need to be able to continue to raise them into nice men. I am not getting 15-20 minutes a day to myself right now, and I need to. So that is my #1 resolution. I believe that following through with that little thing will allow me to follow through with the rest of my resolutions.

So what is planned for all of you this year?

Enough of my rambling and seriousness. Let me end the old year and open the new one by saying "Happy New Year! I hope 2009 is more prosperous for all of us than 2008 was. We love you all."

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

In just over 7 hours...

My little baby turns five years old.

Wow. Just wow. How and when did this happen? When did he change from that little baby in my arms into this little man?

I feel like I have missed so much and haven't been the mom I should be a lot of the time. He makes me want to be a better mother. He is an awesome big brother who does so much to help me take care of the little ones, even though he is still one himself...

I just can't believe Rory is 5!

Man I am sappy tonight. Here are a few pictures of my little guy as he has grown over the past 5 years...

ONE DAY OLD




ONE YEAR OLD

TWO YEARS OLD


THREE YEARS OLD


FOUR YEARS OLD


FIVE YEARS OLD

Monday, December 29, 2008

Just an old story that came up...

Carl and I were talking and remembered this; it happened last August (2007), but is still just as funny! I copied it from the board I posted on at the time:

Funny story from dinner tonight

Ok, So I have a funny story to tell from dinner this evening. Not all of you are going to think this is as funny as Carl and I did, but some of you totally will, so here we go:

So tonight I made chicken spaghetti for dinner. It is a favorite around here, and it actually gets the kids to eat meat and some veggies that are not favorites.

Rory has some slight allergies and this humidity doesn't help much. . . so his frequent sniffles and occasional sneezes are something we don't pay much attention to. . .

Well tonight at dinner he sneezed a few times while Carl and I were talking. . . a few minutes later he sniffles and says "mama do you see the noodle in my nose?" Mind you he is 3 and his noodles do get everywhere.

So I glance over, no noodle on his face, just a ton of sauce, so I responded "No honey, I don't see any noodles."

I go back to eating and he says "No, mama! I mean this one"

I look up at him and see that HE IS POINTING TO A FULL LENGTH NOODLE ON THE TABLE THAT HAS NO SAUCE ON IT!!!!!!!! It turns out there was a noodle in his nose; he had sneezed an entire noodle out of his nose!

I about fell out of my chair laughing, it took Carl another 30 seconds to get it! He was just looking at me like I was a lunatic before it clicked... Both of us laughed about it and then had to try to explain why it happened!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sunday, December 28, 2008

Saving the TaTas...

Today Carl and I fasted in memory of those who have died from breast cancer, in support of those who are dealing with breast cancer, and for those who have dealt with it. We both have felt the effect of breast cancer in our families. His mother passed from breast cancer when he was young, my mother has been in remission for a while now, and other cancers have touched both of our families.

Every time I began to feel a little hunger, I began to think about what I would do if I were in the place that these women and their families are in. I spent my day praying often for the families.

I titled this blog after a mom who has terminal breast cancer that they "thought" was cured. Please read her blog and pray for her: http://jennjewkes.blogspot.com/